Tuesday, November 5, 2013

Adding to the Fray


It's the time of year to start planning out the kids' Christmas presents.  As if they really "needed" anything.  With all of the stuff they have from all of the relatives who love to spoil them, it's hard to think of anything toy-wise to gift them, let alone pass on ideas to relatives and Santa.

They'll get books.  They love to read!  MLB prefers non-fiction (or fact-based fiction) books about animals, math & science.  He might be interested in some age-appropriate biographies of contributors to those fields.  DLG likes a variety of things from her brother's animal tales to her typical girly/princessy things.

A few more DVD couldn't hurt, either.  DLG is taking more of an interest in classic Disney fairy tales; she's also begged for a Hello Kitty video.  MLB admits that he likes Despicable Me; if so, then he should like the sequel.

But toys.... there's the problem.  They seem to have so much.  Some of it gets played with often, while some hardly at all.  Any suggestion to give away anything is met with protests.  In the past, I've secretly culled their toys, but the boy is too old and the girl is too savvy for that to work.  So, despite relocating some things to the grandmothers' houses, I've still got to balance their delight with available room space & their abilities to pick up after themselves.  Oy!

I have a few-- very few-- ideas.

Both of them would enjoy "Disney's Eye Found It!" board-game.  Many games my 9-year-old son likes are too involved for his 4-year-old sister; likewise, her games aren't challenging enough for him.  This one should appeal to the both of them, since they for enjoy "I Spy" books.  The game is a typical spin-and-move board-game (a six-foot board illustrated with Disney's most familiar landscapes,) but there is the cooperative part: if a player's next action requires a "Search Card," then all players have two minutes to find and mark as many of that item on the board.  When time's up, all players move as many spaces as objects found.  Sounds simple & challenging.

I've already bought this one for DLG; they had them at Costco and I could not resist-- the Hello Kitty Jet Plane play set.  A few months ago, I showed DLG the on-line slideshow of the Japanese real-life Hello Kitty passenger jet.  Yes, she squeed.  Now there is a toy one, and the size/playability are a match for the Little People play sets she has.  I told you, I couldn't resist!

I'm now wishing I hadn't resisted a darling Lalaloopsy doll at Wal-Mart last week.  My mom has already gotten two different ones for DLG for Christmas: Haley Galaxy and Scraps Stitched 'n' Sewn (which might appease her cousin-worship for Monster High stuff-- shudder!)  The one I saw was Jewel Sparkles, who sounds SOOO much like my DLG:  "She is very graceful, a little bit bossy, loves to dance and wear sparkly clothes." Ah well, if I can't find her at Wal-mart still, there's always Amazon.

But what, oh what, for the Boy?  If he's not nose-first into a physics-based computer game, he's building stuff or doing science.  So, do I enable his "addiction" or add to the disaster-zone?  K'Nex has recently overtaken his Lego fascination.  This Space Amusement Park Coaster would be so cool to watch in action; and with the Super Mario Beach set, he could create his own "video game."  (But do I REALLY want to add to all the little bits & pieces underfoot?)  He's old enough for a microscope or junior chemistry kit, but then we'd all be constantly fighting off Miss Me-Too.  (You should hear the fits she hurls when she is told that no, she cannot use her brother's school-issued computer NOR is he required to share.)

Maybe I should just make it easy on myself and do the "one big present."
A trampoline.

(And the jet?  Ah, me!  DLG's birthday is a mere month after the holidays!)


Monday, November 4, 2013

She's Back to Sassy


DLG is feeling much, much better.  I should know.  I spent the day with her.  She could not go to school until she was fever-free without meds for a full day.  That day was today.

She started her day with a slice of cold pizza.  Appetite: check.

She talked non-stop all day, saying things like "I HAVE TO TALK" and "we don't have to go to sleep yet, we can have conversation, we haven't had much conversation all day," (yep, since I haven't been able to get a word in edgewise.)  Chatterbox: check.

Using her toy hairdryer to inflate a large (pretend) bouncy-house for her stuffed puppy's birthday party.  Imagination: check

She was quite adamant, to the point of a crying fit, that she HAD to pick out the Halloween candy she wanted to eat; seems Reese's cups & Twix picked out by Mom isn't as yummy as Tootsie Rolls picked out by Herself. Independence: check.

Non-stop motion at Chick-Fil-A playground.  Energy: check.

"Yay! We're going back to Chick-Fil-A.  I've learned my lesson; I do not take my brother's pants off at Chick-Fil-A."  Attitude: check.

"That boy was in my pre-school last year.  That boy is in my class at school.  I know that girl's name."  Social Butterfly: check.

Brushing my hair.  Drawing me pictures.  'Painting' my nails.  Cleaning her bathroom to "my heart glow."  Reading with me.  Holding my hand. Following me everywhere.  Mommy's Little Girl, too: check.


Sunday, November 3, 2013

Just One of Those Things


My poor baby girl has a fever.  She feels pitiful.  It's the only symptom she has.  She gets hot, we give her some meds, she feels better, then she falls asleep. When she wakes, she seems recovered, but then she gets hepped-up and starts running a fever again.  It's so hard to be little.  It's just one of those things you have to learn-- the hard way-- to get over.